How do you know when you can trust someone?  Is it when they deliver on their promise?  Well, that’s not really trust, is it?  That would be a transaction.  Trust is knowing that the one who is promising something has the desire and the power to complete the promised action.  Of course, having seen the person fulfill other promises in the past certainly doesn’t hurt either.

What trust does not mean is that we will get some sort of plan of action report so we can understand how the promise will be fulfilled.  That’s the hardest part when I have to trust.  For some reason, I, like Abram, forget all too often how much God has done without my help.  I feel like I constantly need to be sent out to count the stars that God made and put in their places so I remember that His promises in my non-cosmically-foundational life will be fulfilled.  He has done so much to keep me alive and to bless me beyond anything I could ever deserve, that I can trust, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that whatever fear of lacking or loss that Satan wants me to agonize over, God can and will either spare me from it or carry me through it.

“After these things the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision: ‘Fear not, Abram, I am your shield; your reward shall be very great.’  But Abram said, ‘O, Lord God, what will you give me, for I continue childless, and the heir of my house is Eliezer of Damascus?’  And Abram said, ‘Behold, you have given me no offspring, and a member of my household will be my heir.’  And behold, the word of the Lord came to him: ‘This man shall not be your heir; your very own son shall be your heir.’  And he brought him outside and said, ‘Look toward heaven and number the stars, if you are able to number them.’  Then he said to him, ‘So shall your offspring be.’  And he believed the Lord, and he counted it to him as righteousness.”  – Genesis 15:1-6

Something that I love about God is that He will often do something for me that He had kept me from doing before.  For example, maybe you really want a certain job.  You do everything in your power to get that job, but they hire someone else.  Then one day – maybe weeks later, maybe years later – you get a call, and it’s about the job.  They want you, no competition necessary.  Why would God keep you from the job at first, just to give it to you later?  Maybe it was the timing, or maybe it was your intent that didn’t line up with His design.  That second possibility is what we will look at in the text today.

Just a chapter before Abram comes into the picture, we have the history of Babel (see my previous post entitled The God of Life is Patient).  God halted the plans of the masterminds behind the tower to heaven for a couple of reasons, one of which was their desire to make a name for themselves.  Specifically, they wanted to defy God’s command to spread out and fill the earth.  And now, with Abram?  Check out the text below.  God tells Abram in no uncertain terms that He (God) wants to make Abram’s name great.  Don’t miss why God wants to do this.  This isn’t a trick.  God wants to use the greatness of Abram’s name – the nation that his family will be made into by God’s power – in order that it will be a blessing to all of the families on earth.  That includes you, me, your best friend, and your worst enemy.  God’s purpose in setting Abram apart is not elitism or favoritism; it is a matter of blessing for everyone on Earth.

“Now the Lord said to Abram, ‘Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you.  And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing.  I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.'” – Genesis 12:1-3

God had only ever given good gifts – compassion, empowerment, mercy, truth, unity, and life, among others – to the men and women on earth, but there came a time of such great revolt against holiness that wickedness flooded the earth.  Yes, before the waters of judgment overcame them, the the people had already drowned themselves in a flood of godlessness.  Their desire was for the things of death, and the God of Life was grieved by this.

How do you react in grief?  There are a number of common emotions people generally have while grieving, but God is not like us.  He doesn’t react with emotions.  He responds with righteousness.  You see, while we like to think we can declare what is fair, God designed Justice.  When wickedness is the desire of the people, the Lord’s grief is deeper than any heartbreak we can know, and His actions are more pure than anything we are capable of.  His destruction is not a fit.  That is how sinful man reacts.  His judgment is just, and the judgment that destroyed the wicked during Noah’s time is a merciful caution for us today.

“The Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intention of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.  And the Lord was sorry that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him to his heart.  So the Lord said, ‘I will blot out man whom I have created from the face of the land, man and animals and creeping things and birds of the heavens, for I am sorry that I have made them’  But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord.”  – Genesis 6:5-8

Cain’s life can be almost painful to read.  Have you ever read a report of someone that is so shameful, and yet they are so unaware of their shame, that you just have to wince for them?  This is one way to read the saga of Cain.  After murdering his brother, Cain responds to God Himself with what seems, at best, a rude and deceitful response.  He spoke this way to the Creator God.  This might be where I winced.  When God approached Cain’s parents, Adam and Eve, after they first sinned, God asked them where they were, and they at least answered honestly and feared the Lord their God.

What is quite amazing is that God does not smite Cain right then and there.  No, in fact, he uses this train-wreck of an interaction to teach Cain about the just actions He (God) must take to discipline him (Cain).  God tells Cain that the earth would no longer provide him with food.  And Cain’s response to this is that God has been too harsh.  Can you imagine talking back to a judge in a court of law this way?  Wince again over here.  And he goes on.  Now, Cain claims, he will be killed as he wander about.  Clearly he does not wish for himself what he did to his brother.

Now God, in His incredible compassion, says no.  No, Cain, you who killed your own brother will not be killed at the hands of another.  Here is where my self-righteous wincing changes to the sinking of my heart as I realize I am just as brazen as this fool named Cain, and God has had compassion on me, too.

“Then the Lord said, ‘Where is Abel your brother?’  He said, ‘ I do not know; am I my brother’s keeper?’  And the Lord said, ‘What have you done?  The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to me from the ground.  And now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand.  When you work the ground, it shall no longer yield to you its strength.  You shall be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth.’  Cain said to the Lord, ‘My punishment is greater than I can bear.  Behold, you have driven me today away from the ground, and from your face I shall be hidden.  I shall be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me.’  Then the Lord said to him, ‘Not so!  If anyone kills Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold.’  And the Lord put a mark on Cain, lest any who found him should attack him.  Then Cain went away from the presence of the Lord and settled in the land of Nod, east of Eden.”  – Genesis 4:9-16

God gave the blessing of two sons to Adam and Eve–first Cain, then Abel.  Both brothers made an offering to the Lord, but the Lord only found Abel’s pleasing.  The text shows that God, in His wisdom and understanding of Cain’s heart, spoke to him, instructing Cain that his shortcoming in the offering didn’t have to turn into bitterness and revenge.  God empowered Cain to stand firm, humble and obedient, fleeing from Satan’s newest ploy to ensnare him (Cain) in the web of death.  God instructed Adam to rule over the animals of the Earth, and here God tells Cain to rule over the sinful impulses that desire to destroy him.

Unfortunately, Cain did not heed the Lord’s caution.  Instead of ruling over sin, he was ruled by violence and killed his brother, likely believing Satan’s second-oldest lie–that killing another person will better one’s own standing.

“And the Lord had regard for Abel and his offering, but for Cain and his offering he had no regard.  So Cain was very angry, and his face fell.  The Lord said to Cain, ‘Why are you angry, and why has your face fallen?’  If you do well, will you not be accepted?  And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door.  Its desire is for you, but you must rule over it.’ “Cain spoke to Abel his brother.  And when they were in the field, Cain rose up against his brother Abel and killed him.” – Genesis 4:4b-8

God gave mankind literally everything, except that one tree.  God spoke truth when He told Adam that he would die if he ate of or touched it.  The man and his wife had taken the whole world of blessing that God had given them freely, and exchanged it for one big fat lie.  Not only did they not become like God when they obeyed His enemy, but they became broken images of their Father, suffering in ways they never had before under the Creator’s care.

Even considering this great betrayal, God showed them mercy.  How?  Before God pronounces the consequence of their sin to Adam and Eve, God addresses the Great Deceiver:

“The Lord God said to the serpent;

‘Because you have done this, cursed are you above all livestock and above all beasts of the field; on your belly you shall go, and dust you shall eat all the days of your life.  I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her offspring;  he shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise his heel.’’ -Genesis 3:14

God shows mercy by making Satan the greater curse.  Adam and Eve were still sentenced to expulsion from God’s garden and eventual death after great suffering, but he did not turn His full wrath against their full rebellion.  He had mercy on them to give them time.  Time for what?  The same thing He still gives us time for today – repentance.

God speaks truth.  Satan speaks lies.  The wickedness of Satan is so vile because he strikes an accusatory blow at God’s own character right out of the gate.  He misdirects the man and the woman with blatant falsehood.  When the woman corrects him, as he may well have expected, he begins the seduction.  What God has told you isn’t true, he interjects. In fact, what God says will cause you harm will actually give you what God has, which obviously is better than what you currently have.

Essentially, Satan frames God as a liar and a hoarder of good gifts.  This devastating scene shows us the deadliness of Satan’s intent – pitting man and woman against the God who loves them and has given them everything.  Satan leads us to believe that God’s way actually keeps blessing from us, and he promises that we can trust him (Satan) to give us the better deal.  Beware, my friend.  Satan is not benevolent.  His joy is your captivity. His pride is in making you think how bright you are as you enter into his snare.

“Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the filed that the Lord God had made.

‘He said to the woman, ‘Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?’  And the woman said to the serpent, ‘We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’  But the serpent said to the woman, ‘You will not surely die.  For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.’  So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate.  Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked.  And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.”

Genesis 3:1-7  ESV

When God created man, man wasn’t really alone.  God was with him.  However, God, in infinite love, personally designed the right mate, a woman – beautiful, capable, and a pure blessing.  They were the original bread and butter.  Made for one another.  God’s harmonious masterpiece.  This epic surprise did not come because the man complained of some lacking in God’s brand new world.  He was already working in and enjoying life in the garden.  Then God completed his magnum opus, even as the man slept.  The man was amazed by the woman, and their union was complete.  They had been made for each other, and no substitute would do.  As their bodies became one, their unity showed God’s glory.  He created them, and they rejoiced together in His perfect design, giving thanks.

“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’  Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them.  And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name.  The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field.  But for Adam there is not found a helper fit for him.  So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept, took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh.  And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.  Then the man said,

‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.’

Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.  An the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.”

Genesis 2:18-25 ESV